Friday, 13 April 2012
A short story-
GIRLS ! ♥ ♥
♥My greatest dream,♥
To you I give the whole me
Boy: I think I like you
Both Are Quiet But Have Hundreds Of Things Running In The Mind.."
Tujhe Pa Na Saka
Thursday, 12 April 2012
Girl: Will you pick me up if I ever fell down?
Girl: Will you pick me up if I ever fell down?
Boy: No.
Girl: Would you wipe away the tears when I’m sad..:(...?
Boy: Never.
Girl: Will you still love me when I look my worst?
Boy: Nope.
Girl: At least you’re honest …..:(((
Boy: I wouldn’t pick you up if you fell because I would catch you before you even hit the ground....♥
I wouldn’t wipe away your tears because I’ll make sure there’s nothing for you to ever be sad about....♥
I wouldn’t love you when you look your worst because that’s impossible. You always look you’re best, even when you think you don’t.....♥
I love you more than anything, always remember that......♥ ♥
" Hit Like if you Love it "
cuz i doo!! :)
Boy: No.
Girl: Would you wipe away the tears when I’m sad..:(...?
Boy: Never.
Girl: Will you still love me when I look my worst?
Boy: Nope.
Girl: At least you’re honest …..:(((
Boy: I wouldn’t pick you up if you fell because I would catch you before you even hit the ground....♥
I wouldn’t wipe away your tears because I’ll make sure there’s nothing for you to ever be sad about....♥
I wouldn’t love you when you look your worst because that’s impossible. You always look you’re best, even when you think you don’t.....♥
I love you more than anything, always remember that......♥ ♥
" Hit Like if you Love it "
cuz i doo!! :)
Wednesday, 11 April 2012
When I say I love you.. Promise me
When I say I love you.. Promise me
you’ll wait for me!!
When I say forever.. Promise me
you’ll never leave me!! But
... When I say Good Bye.
.
Promise me
Promise me
you won’t cry !!
you know why ??
B ’coz the day I’ll be saying that
would
be the day I die ..♥
Girl:" I'm feeling-cold"
Girl:" I'm feeling-cold"
Guy: "here take it " (gives her his jacket)
Girl: "My neck is cold"
Guy: "Here"(gives her his scarf)
Girl: "My lips are cold"
Guy: (Holds her, pulls her close, and kisses her) muwahhh :
Guy : "All better?" R u alright now ?
Girl : **blushes** kissess :)
Guy: "here take it " (gives her his jacket)
Girl: "My neck is cold"
Guy: "Here"(gives her his scarf)
Girl: "My lips are cold"
Guy: (Holds her, pulls her close, and kisses her) muwahhh :
Guy : "All better?" R u alright now ?
Girl : **blushes** kissess :)
To love you in the silence
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
Is to understand that I would
Never be in your loving arms,
Nor in the embrace
Of the warmth of your body,
Nor in the heat of your flames.
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
It's to know that my love
For you is so secretly intense,
And is more then just a feeling,
It's something that it will go
beyond any boundaries
And only you could reach,
For only you, are the thief of my heart.
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
It's like cultivating an imaginary
garden of roses,
That every day more and more,
My love grows stronger for you...
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
Is more then just a breath of air
That I need to live,
It's me loving you, and missing you,
It's wanting our to souls to unite,
And become one single soul.
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
It's carrying the cross of a love
that is real,
That will climb any mountains,
And swim any oceans,
It's wanting our love
To be deeper than the deep blue sea,
That I would go through any extremes,
To capture the love I feel for you,
I love you, with all my heart and soul.
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
May you get everything you want ,
May you touch the sky with your hands...
Be mine always....!!
From my heart and soul,
Is to understand that I would
Never be in your loving arms,
Nor in the embrace
Of the warmth of your body,
Nor in the heat of your flames.
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
It's to know that my love
For you is so secretly intense,
And is more then just a feeling,
It's something that it will go
beyond any boundaries
And only you could reach,
For only you, are the thief of my heart.
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
It's like cultivating an imaginary
garden of roses,
That every day more and more,
My love grows stronger for you...
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
Is more then just a breath of air
That I need to live,
It's me loving you, and missing you,
It's wanting our to souls to unite,
And become one single soul.
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
It's carrying the cross of a love
that is real,
That will climb any mountains,
And swim any oceans,
It's wanting our love
To be deeper than the deep blue sea,
That I would go through any extremes,
To capture the love I feel for you,
I love you, with all my heart and soul.
To love you in the silence
From my heart and soul,
May you get everything you want ,
May you touch the sky with your hands...
Be mine always....!!
A Great Lesson In Human Psychology!!
► When A Person Laughs 2 Much
Even On Stupid Things, Be Sure
That Person Is Sad Deep Inside.
► When A Person Sleeps A lot, Be
Sure that Person Is Lonely.
► When A Person Talks Less, And
If He Talks,
He Talks Fast Then It Means That
Person Keeps Secrets.
► When Someone Can't Cry Then
That Person Is Weak.
► When Someone Eats In
Abnormal Way Then That Person
Is In Tension.
► When Someone Cry On Little
Things Then It Means
He Is Innocent & Soft Hearted.
► When Someone Gets Angry On
Silly Or Small Things It Means He Is
In Love.
So True, Try To See All These In
Real Life, U Will Find All.
The pain that I feel so deep inside,
The pain that I feel so deep inside,
The hurt, the shame, and all the
lies.
People that I live with thought they would be the people that I
love,
With the hate, the anger, the yelling, the teasing, and the
madness.
The more that I cry, the more I
think there is no love.
When I go to school they always talk about me,
When I come home that’s not where I want to be.
Sometimes I feel I don't
want to be in this world,
If someone shot me I wonder how they would
feel,
Happy, mad, or pretend that they are sad.
The pain that I feel so
deep inside,
The hurt, the shame, and all the lies.
Why are you leaving in this time of need,
Why are you leaving in this time of need,
Why are you leaving me why indeed.
What have I done was it something that I said,
Or is it that you have found someone else instead.
What is the reason why you want to go,
Do I deserve to be treated like so.
All this time we shared our love and tears,
Now you want to leave me after all these years.
All the joy we had and all the fun to,
It seems like that does not matter to you.
You say that you must leave to go on your way,
I never saw it coming not on any single day.
I do not understand what have I done,
Why can we not live together as one.
I do not want you to go for us to be apart,
Now all I have left is my broken heart.
Why are you leaving me why indeed.
What have I done was it something that I said,
Or is it that you have found someone else instead.
What is the reason why you want to go,
Do I deserve to be treated like so.
All this time we shared our love and tears,
Now you want to leave me after all these years.
All the joy we had and all the fun to,
It seems like that does not matter to you.
You say that you must leave to go on your way,
I never saw it coming not on any single day.
I do not understand what have I done,
Why can we not live together as one.
I do not want you to go for us to be apart,
Now all I have left is my broken heart.
Tuesday, 10 April 2012
90 Reasons why I love you
01. For being patient with me.
02. For being the most honest person that I know.
03. For your love.
04. For making me feel comfortable around you.
05. For being true to yourself.
06. For being my early morning buddy.
07. For being my bebe. ^^;;
08. For being my kumot. ^__^;;
09. For being the sweetest person that I know.
10. For your comforting hugs.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
11. For holding my hand.
12. For making me laugh.
13. For being the corniest, yet the funniest person that I know.
14. For being my greatest blessing.
15. For accepting me and everything that I am.
16. For sharing your life with me.
17. For allowing me to share my life with you.
18. For sharing your dreams with me.
19. For holding me when I cry.
20. For letting me pour out everything to you.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
21. For listening to me when I need to rant.
22. For listening to me when I just need to talk.
23. For being there for me.
24. For understanding everying that I am.
25. For everything that you are.
26. For cheering me up when I'm all bummed out.
27. For assuring me that everything will be okay.
28. For standing with me in the rain.
29. For gazing at the stars with me.
30. For the adventurous person that you are.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
31. For watching TV with me, even when you're already tired and sleepy.
32. For the little things that you do.
33. For never doubting me.
34. For being an angel.
35. For always being true to your words.
36. For the special things you do for me.
37. For treating me well.
38. For the inquisitive person that you are.
39. For being great at turning your feelings into poetry.
40. For keeping me warm when I'm cold.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
41. Because you make me smile.
42. Because you make me happy.
43. Because you make me feel complete with you.
44. Because you make me want noone else in the world.
45. Because you make me feel special.
46. Because I can tell you everything.
47. Because you sing to me! hehehe! ^^;;
48. Because you dance for me too! haha! XD
49. Because you're my life's inspiration.
50. Because you make me feel that I'm truly part of the family.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
51. Because you welcomed me to your barkada.
52. Because you make my life wonderful by being part of it.
53. Because you keep me sane.
54. Because you give me a reason to anticipate waking up every morning.
55. Because you taught me the meaning of unconditional love.
56. Because you never fail to brighten up my day.
57. Because you make me feel good about myself.
58. Because you make me proud of you.
59. Because you make me proud of being yours.
60. Because you're everything I ever hoped for... and more.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
61. Because you add color to my life.
62. Because you allow me to just be myself.
63. Because you make it so easy to love you.
64. Because you always know exactly what to say.
65. Because you make me laugh when I want to cry.
66. Because you help me understand myself better.
67. Because you take good care of me.
68. Because you make me smile everytime my phone beeps.
69. Because even if you say that you're not perfect, to me, you still are.
70. Because you were definitely worth the wait.
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71. Because you're the best drummer in the whole wide world! ^_,~;; hehe
72. Because you make me feel important.
73. Because you make me feel loved.
74. Because you bring out the best in me.
75. Because with you, everything is just perfect.
76. Because you believe in me.
77. Because there's no reason not to.
78. Because you always manage to plaster a silly smile on my face.
79. Because you still listen, even when I'm disappointed and angry.
80. Because you still understand my feelings, no matter how selfish or wrong they are.
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81. Because you can actually put up with my occasional emotional outbursts.
82. Because you still find time for me, even when you're busy.
83. Because my entire being's telling me that I do.
84. Because even when I'm all moody, you still manage to make me laugh.
85. Because you give great back massages. ^_,~;;
86. Because you teach me so many things about life.
87. Because you make me feel contented with myself and my life.
88. Because I'm at my happiest when I'm with you.
89. Because you make me look forward to spending the rest of our lives together.
90. Because... I JUST DO! :)
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Monday, 9 April 2012
10 things a girl probably doesn't know about a guy :
1. Guys are more emotional than they think, if they loved them truly.
2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
4. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
5. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.
6. Girls are guys' weaknesses.
7. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
8. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
9. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.
10. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible .. ♥
While you scream at your girl, there's a man wishing he could whisper in her ear.
While you fight every time with your girl, there's a man who wants to do sweet romance with her.
While you humiliate, doubt, offend & insult her, there's a man flirting with her & reminding her how Beautiful & Special she is.
While you hurt her and make her sad, there's a man wishing he could take away all her pain and give her all the happiness of this world she deserve.
While you make her cry, there's a man who become shoulder to her to wipe off her tears and stealing smiles by acting funny.
While you call her 'bitch', there's a man who call her 'Angel'.
While you ignore and don't care about her and don't give her time, there is a man who wants to spend and name his every second of the whole life with her.
Every woman needs a tender touch of love & deserves a man who loves her like there's no tomorrow.
Always care for your Girl. Don't let there be a gap for a third person who can be better for her than you.
She's Only Yours if you'll make her yours with 'LOVE'. ♥
Friday, 6 April 2012
A young couple was very much in
A young couple was very much in
love, decided to get married.
love, decided to get married.
Some months before Marriage, the
bride had an accident and
remained with face completely
disfigured.
She wrote to her fiance...
" I can't marry you, I will stay
sharp and ugly forever.
Find yourself another beautiful
young woman as you deserve,
because I'm not worthy of you!! "
Few days later, she received this
answer from her fiance...
" Whoever is truly shamfull is me, i
thrust in that following to eye
disease, the doctor just told me
that i will stay blind !!
If despite this, you want to accept
me, i still want to marry you ! "
They get married at that time, the
fiance was totally blind.
They lived 20 years in LOVE, in joy
and understanding.
She was his guide and became his
eyes and light.
LOVE has guided into the tunnel
of darkness.
One day, she became seriously ill
and dying, she regretted living
him alone in the darkness.
The day she died, he opened his
eyes to the astonishment of all.
He said.
" I was not blind, I pretended that i
was blind, for distressed her in
the thought that i will see her face
disfigured. Now my LOVE based
on her!! "
MORAL :- TRUE LOVE SEES BEYOND
PHYSICAL BEAUTY, BECAUSE TRUE
LOVE, IS SEEN WITH THE HEART..!
Thursday, 5 April 2012
12 things your falling in Love..♥ :
12 things your falling in Love..♥ :
1. You'll Read His/Her Texts;
Over and Over again.
2. You'll Walk Really Really Slow;
While you're with Him/Her.
3. You'll Pretend 2 be Shy;
Whenever you're with Him/Her.
4. While Thinking about Him/Her;
your Heart will Beat faster and faster.
5. By Listening to His/Her Voice;
you'll Smile for no Reason.
6. While Looking at Him/Her;
you cant see the Other People around you,
you can Only See that Person.
7. You'll Start Listening to SLOW Songs.
8. He/She becomes all you Think about.
9. You'll get High just by Their Smell.
10. You'll Realize that;
you're always Smiling to yourself;
When you Think about Them.
11. You'll Do anything for Him/Her.
12. While Reading this,
There was One Person on your Mind the Whole Time..♥ :)
◕Press Like If you are in Love..♥,
◕Comment If wanna dedicate the Status
to some Special one..♥
1. You'll Read His/Her Texts;
Over and Over again.
2. You'll Walk Really Really Slow;
While you're with Him/Her.
3. You'll Pretend 2 be Shy;
Whenever you're with Him/Her.
4. While Thinking about Him/Her;
your Heart will Beat faster and faster.
5. By Listening to His/Her Voice;
you'll Smile for no Reason.
6. While Looking at Him/Her;
you cant see the Other People around you,
you can Only See that Person.
7. You'll Start Listening to SLOW Songs.
8. He/She becomes all you Think about.
9. You'll get High just by Their Smell.
10. You'll Realize that;
you're always Smiling to yourself;
When you Think about Them.
11. You'll Do anything for Him/Her.
12. While Reading this,
There was One Person on your Mind the Whole Time..♥ :)
◕Press Like If you are in Love..♥,
◕Comment If wanna dedicate the Status
to some Special one..♥
Wednesday, 4 April 2012
Boys get mad easily, but
Boys get mad easily, but
usually do not show it.
Girls get sad easily and can cry
like crazy! ...
...
Boys care about the quantity of
love!.
Girls care about the quality of
love ...
Boys can forget, but can not
forgive.
Girls can forgive, but can not
forget! ...
Boys can never reject a girl’s
add friend request
But girls often reject it just to
feel powerful!!
Boys prefer the phrase "Boys
vs Girls"
Girls INSIST on saying "Girls vs
Boys" !! :)
!~ ♥ ~! Who Is A Male ??? !~ ♥ ~!
!~ ♥ ~! Who Is A Male ??? !~ ♥ ~!
! ♥ ! Something About Guys whichis True n Makes Sense ! ♥ !
A Male is God's most Beautiful andinspiring Creation.
He Starts Compromising at very tender age. . =
He sacrifices his Chocolate for his Sister.
Later he Sacrifices his Love, Beer nother Intoxication
for just a Smile on his Parents face..♥ !
He Sacrifices his other Love for hisWife
And His Children by working till late Nights.
He builds their future by taking Loans from Banks,
And getting himself Tortured while Repaying them for the Lifetime.. =(
Thus He sacrifices full youth for his Wife and Children
without any Complain..!!
He Struggles a lot and still has to hear the scolding of his Mother,
Wife and his Boss. And every Mother, Boss and Wife tries to control him.
Finally his life ends up by Compromising for Others Happiness..!! =(
He is that Creation of God that No one can compete with..!! =)
-Respect every Man/Boy in your Life...
You will never know what he has Sacrificed for you..♥ !!
Just extend your hands when he needs It,
and you shall Receive Twice the Love from him..♥ =)
Enough of Girls/Women/ Wife emotional Broadcasts..
Boys also have Emotions.. so Please Care for their Emotions..! —
! ♥ ! Something About Guys whichis True n Makes Sense ! ♥ !
A Male is God's most Beautiful andinspiring Creation.
He Starts Compromising at very tender age. . =
He sacrifices his Chocolate for his Sister.
Later he Sacrifices his Love, Beer nother Intoxication
for just a Smile on his Parents face..♥ !
He Sacrifices his other Love for hisWife
And His Children by working till late Nights.
He builds their future by taking Loans from Banks,
And getting himself Tortured while Repaying them for the Lifetime.. =(
Thus He sacrifices full youth for his Wife and Children
without any Complain..!!
He Struggles a lot and still has to hear the scolding of his Mother,
Wife and his Boss. And every Mother, Boss and Wife tries to control him.
Finally his life ends up by Compromising for Others Happiness..!! =(
He is that Creation of God that No one can compete with..!! =)
-Respect every Man/Boy in your Life...
You will never know what he has Sacrificed for you..♥ !!
Just extend your hands when he needs It,
and you shall Receive Twice the Love from him..♥ =)
Enough of Girls/Women/ Wife emotional Broadcasts..
Boys also have Emotions.. so Please Care for their Emotions..! —
—
Monday, 2 April 2012
Married or Unmarried , Please read it.......................
Married or Unmarried , Please read it.......................
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up..
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